Let go and let god

Letting Go

• To “Let Go” does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.
• To “Let Go” is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization I can’t control another. To “Let Go” is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
• To “Let Go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
• To “Let Go” is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.
• To “Let Go” is not to care for, but to care about.
• To “Let Go” is not to fix, but to be supportive.
•  To “Let Go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
•  To “Let Go” is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
•  To “Let Go” is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.
• To “Let Go” is not to deny, but to accept.
• To “Let Go” is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
• To “Let Go” is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
•  To “Let Go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
• To “Let Go” is to fear less and love more. – Unknown.
• http://deanaohara.com/2009/07/11/letting-go-let-go-and-let-god/